I'm a single blackwoman.I work odd hours and a lot of them.So I'm seeking a single man that can be spontaneous for those occasional random spur of the moment breaks in the day.Or an occasional planned weekend get together.Ethical non-monogamy is welcome, cheating or the need for discretion is not.You should be able to host.I'm drug, drama and disease free and I want to stay that way.I'm not 420 friendly.You can be.Safe sex.I smoke cigarettes and drink socially.Wanna exchange a few emails first.If that goes well let's have coffee.If that goes well, let's discuss the possibilities.This is not an ad to meet andsmash. I'm a low maintenance, wash and go kind of woman. HWP big girl.Look younger than my 49 years.